Anal sex between men and women has been around for millennia. From early paintings, erotic drawings, sculpture, and pottery depicting men performing anal sex on women, it is clear that these ancient civilizations not only enjoyed but celebrated the pleasurable penetration of that delightful little bud. With the rise in popularity of anal sex within the last few decades, it seems that today’s couples, like their ancestors before them, have recognized the eroticism and sexual potency of backdoor play.
For some men, the novelty, rarity, and kinkiness of venturing into the tight forbidden zone of a female partner are what makes anal sex so appealing; while others enjoy the feeling of dominance and possession that can be triggered. Men often see anal sex as a rare and special gift from women that are given out of love and a desire to please.
For women, anal sex encourages them to be more sexually adventurous, more sensuous and more orgasmic. It allows her to openly display a desire and willingness to enjoy raw, primal sex. When women engage in anal sex, it often comes from a place of substantial trust and love for her male partner.
It may be men who are most obsessed with anal sex but it is women who can derive the most sexual pleasure from it. In women, the rear tunnel lies next to the vaginal canal and the sphincter is actually part of the web of sensitive clitoral and G-spot tissue. Stimulation of this deeper area can provide a delectable new sense of pressure and fullness.The anus, richly endowed with nerve endings and interconnected with the main pelvic muscles, is the closest erogenous neighbor of the genitals and contracts rhythmically during orgasm. No wonder so many women report having their best and strongest orgasms from anal sex.
De-bunking the Anal Sex Myths
Anal sex will hurt. When indulging in anal sex, women need to appreciate the difference between pain and the physical sensations that are new and unusual. With time and experience, the initial strange feeling typically evolves into a new kind of sexual pleasure. Keep in mind that when a penis is introduced into the anus, the anal muscles go into spasm. Pain will result if the male partner does not wait for these muscles to relax so men need to wait a few moments before thrusting. If the sensations are painful instead of unusual, couples should stop immediately and try to determine what is causing the pain. They should not engage in anal sex again until the problem and possible remedy is discovered.
Anal sex is unhygienic and dirty. The primary function of the rectum is to act as a passageway for poop. But poop is not normally stored in the rectum except just before a bowel movement; although small amounts may stay in the rectum if the poop is not well formed. Women should empty their rectum before anal sex. For those individuals especially concerned with cleanliness, a soapy shower or anal douching beforehand can alleviate their concerns.
Anal sex is dangerous. Anal sex is perfectly safe and will not result in physical injury provided both partners never use force or allow pain to be unduly tolerated. Men should make sure their nails are trimmed and hands are clean if they plan on manual stimulation beforehand. Any dangerous parasites or bacteria usually found in poop can be completely avoided during anal sex by cleaning the area beforehand, using a condom and NEVER EVER entering the woman’s vagina or mouth afterward. This is an absolute must!